Housing for Seniors: Family Visiting Options

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There's no reason why you shouldn't visit your parents often after they relocate to housing for seniors. After all, human interaction is very important for seniors, and continuous communication with them makes the transition easier for both of you. Here are a few points to keep in mind as you prepare to visit your loved one.

Planning a Visit

To help things go smoothly, come prepared with topics to discuss. Bring a photo album, write down funny stories ahead of time, or plan to discuss a big upcoming decision you must make during your time at the housing for seniors. Talking about things that are important to each other, instead of trivial things like the weather, keeps you close despite these new living arrangements.

When to Visit

Talk with your parent about the best time for visits. Seniors often feel more energetic and social at certain times of day, so as much as you're tempted to stop in for a "surprise visit," resist the urge. Having said that, if you establish a time to visit, make sure you keep your promise so your loved one doesn't feel abandoned. You'll also need to look into visiting hours established by the housing for seniors, if you wish to visit a non-family member.

During the Visit

When you first arrive, knock or otherwise ask for permission to enter their room. Greet them affectionately with a handshake or hug to let your loved one know how you much you care. Also be sure to listen attentively instead of talking "at" your elderly loved one. Be supportive as well. This is undoubtedly a difficult transition for your parent, and your positive attitude can help them adjust.

Decide exactly where you would like the visit to take place. Perhaps your loved one feels more comfortable meeting on the grounds instead of inside the housing for seniors. You might agree to visit during a mealtime so you can share lunch or dinner together. A private, quiet setting, such as your loved one's room, is also appropriate.

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